so many crazy things that have been happening this past week, but i really do feel on top of the world right now. holy spirit. oh boy. boy oh boy…
<3<3<3
adding them always seem to hit the spot.
i’m writing this song for YOU by the way. i’m simply using a vessel to get it to you. stealthy points +1
sooooo
i’m kinda proud right now. really proud actually. i’ve never had someone that i’ve mentored actually pull through like this. i can’t wait.
apologizing
does not always mean you are wrong and the other person is right…
…it just means that you value your relationship more than your ego.
you and me
i had something really long and smart-sounding all prepared in my head days ago and ready to go, but like all good blog posts, they’re usually forgotten and put away in the back of my mind. at the time, i was emotional and usually, that’s when my writing is at it’s best. but this time around, i’m just going to be straightforward.
do you seriously not see the implications of your actions right now? you really thought i was going to let it pass and do nothing? do you really have no idea what’s coming to you right now? this situation… this situation in it’s entirety just got really messy. at first, i was about to let it pass, because i love you. i didn’t want to ruin your weekends and events with all of this, having it weigh you down. but because all of those times are done and over with and because of the way you’ve been treating me recently (and in the past now that i think back about it), something just triggered.
and you’ll see. you’ll definitely see.
a lesson on drama
don’t be the catalyst of chaos; learn to keep your mouth shut. this is amongst the many things i’ve caught on during my tenure with korean movies. if everyone kept to themselves, drama would be over, and vicarious living will come to an end.
here’s how it goes: you have info that should not be leaked but have started talking to other people thinking that they know. someone comes up to you, saying something outlandish that makes them appear they are “in the know.” you then blurt out everything after the slightest hint of accusation, just to find out the person was actually upset about something totally different.
apply to real time: when you have information, don’t say anything until you hear what the other person has to say. listening gives you time to think, once heard, you can adjust accordingly. play it smart and leave the drama to the actors.
say “no” more
i’ve always been a crowd pleaser growing up. even if i didn’t like it, i’d go along with it. that was until i realized i hated being a pushover. excercising your “nos” in life is just as important as its binary, yet finding the balance is so finite. this is something i’m still struggling with today.
the 21st century and it’s effect on romanticism
there is the right way to PDA and there is the wrong way. just as there are understood rules for courtesy purposes, i highly believe that the understood should cross over to the interweb. isn’t there this one person in your collective memory that pretty much embodies singlehood? but then one day … BAM … they miraculously capture a significant other and spam all social networking sites – facebook, myspace, twitter – of their newfound love via updates, pictures, conversations, etc? reading some of it, albeit amusing, often triggers a quick gagging reflex. when will i become immune to such things? for both our sakes, i hope soon! the thing is, i don’t see the need to broadcast your intimate life on such a public medium. here’s a novel idea – rather than type out your love, why not show it? and not in the typical PDA fashion, either.
home is where the heart is
quote of the weekend. “it’s not about the things you do, it’s who you do them with”.
don’t worry so much next time. as long as you’re with the right people, things will always work out. i need to turn epic mode on more often. you guys have something real special brewing up over there. keep it real tight. til next time!
